Thursday 29 December 2011

Remember What Makes You Happy

Happy New Year Everybody!


I know 2011 has not been easy, so much has happened. But all we gotta do is wish and hope for the best in 2012.


I've decided. Everyday I must remind myself of the things that make me happy, because that way I will be able to BE the happy, positive person I want to be. We are all blessed, and we all have millions of things that inspire us surrounding us; however, sometimes we get too caught up that we don't see them. And when something bad happens to us, we don't remember what makes us happy and we hide inside our bubble of darkness. This is why I've decided to remind myself of the blessings I have in my life, thank you God I've got so many and in this post I will support them by photos. It is worthy to mention that I was inspired to start blogging by 2 people, 1st by my all-time favorite childhood buddy and life coach: Khaled Ghorab.


This person is a walking inspiration! You have no idea how he worked on himself to reach the person he is today, if you had met Khaled like 10 years ago you'd never believe that he's the same person. He spreads positivity all around and he's got this charm that touches everyone he sees or speaks to. He has helped me through a lot and has been nothing but caring, loving and helpful. I don't know what I'd have done without you in my life. I've seen myself transform into a better person because of you, all those advices and life coaching you've given me have finally paid off! God you mean the world to me and I miss you so much.When I am down, all it takes is a small chat with Khaled and my life is rosy again, it's that simple believe me. He seems to find away to turn even the darkest moments into the most productive ones! He keeps telling me "I think and believe that all this is happening to you for a very good reason and beyond that reason there is the faith that you're the ONLY ONE who can handle it and become stronger from it."  And it all makes sense to me. Khaled sees difficult times as opportunities for us to remind ourselves of what we are grateful for and start doing the things which have worked for us for such a long time. He also believes that it's a time where we should all reward ourselves! It's a time to learn how to inspire and motivate ourselves! A time to get up and dust off the dust people! So what are you waiting for you? Go on and do the same! =)
Khaled, I thank God you are in my life. I love you endlessly.

The second person who inspired me to start blogging was Heba Mitkees. She was my colleague during University and it's heartbreaking to say that she passed away early Sunday morning. She lost her battle with cancer after months of fighting it. We weren't close but she was a beautiful young woman filled with life, she had a strong point of view, she was sharp, smart and knowledgeable. Everyone wanted to be her friend.


I was amazed by her ability to be so open about her journey with the disease. I read her entire blog and this is when I was so eager to start writing myself. She wanted to help people be more aware and I too want to share experiences that may be of use to others. Here's a link to Heba's blog:


It's just so very informative and useful to cancer carriers and anyone who wants to know more about it. Thank you for this beautiful Heba, I am certain that you are looking down upon us with a smile on your face, I know that you are in a better place, I know that you are safe, happy, healthy and content. My deepest condolences to all your friends and to your sweet mother. I met her for the first time at the funeral yesterday, you look so much like her. I also took her number to call her and visit her every once in a while.

We will meet soon, all of us.

So, yesterday I started taking photos of the things that make me happy. So let's check them out. 




I had a cinnabon which I was dying for for days! Of course I had a minibon because I am trying to lose weight and it's worthy to mention that I ate it really slow and tried to enjoy every bite so I can indulge in the taste and also to feel full. This advice has been given to me by many and it actually works! Thank God for yummy cinnabons =)



I then met one of my good friends Nazmy, him being around makes life easier. He is such a good friend and is always there even though he is not going through the best times himself but it's always nice to know that we have each other. Thank you Nazmy! 


The photo below is Blue Lounge, a very nice cafe/restaurant in the 6th of October. I just love this place, they have these heaters to keep us warm in this cold winter and they have an indoor area as well. But it is great to sit outside near the heaters and enjoy a delicious hot meal and have the BEST and I mean the BEST cup of tea EVER. You never find a good cup of tea ANYWHERE outside your house, but this one is just so home-made, it's is a cup of sweet steamy tea with mint YUMMO! So all in all, this place has great food, great tea, a warm atmosphere and even good music! And best of all it is close to my home. I love Blue Lounge, thanks to my x bf and friend Ramy Farag for introducing me to it.


Asmaa, my newest close girl friend. She has gone through the worst times and yet she is alive and well. I sincerely admire her strength, I actually learn from her. She stood by me and still is I just feel like she's the sister I never had. I have bad history with girls, I mean I don't easily make friends with girls here in Egypt especially, maybe because I have a mind of my own. I'm like a bird, free an independent and I don't have these girl "3o2ad." But Asmaa and I have so much in common. I can tell her anything, I can count on her always and it feels great to know that there is someone out there who can tolerate me in my worst times. I love you Samsoosy! (She hates that name :D) I also thank Asmaa for introducing me to Khuloud who is our 3rd musketeer! The 3 of us make a great team, or better yet, a great family. We spend so much time together and ever since we start doing so, I never feel alone =)


Finally, I'd like to express how proud I am of my younger brother Ahmad who until now lost 12 kilos in a month and still working on reaching his ideal weight! You taught me that anything is possible broey. You did it! <3 

Well these were some of the things that make me happy everyday in my life, more happy things very soon =)

Happy new year everyone!